I set myself up. I do that a lot. I tracked someone down... no, it wasn't stalking... and sent them a message in the blind. I don't even know if this person even uses the email address associated with the site any more or how often they check it.
Now I am having all kinds of stuff rumble around in my head because I haven't had a response. Of course the best cure for that is to get out and hang with others. That situation should be remedied this weekend in Corning.
Meanwhile I guess I will keep checking my inbox to see if I get a response.